Episode 19

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14th Jun 2024

BDSM Marks In The Summer: Show Off Or Hide?

BDSM marks: show them off or hide them in the summer? Many subs cherish these marks despite the pain because they’re symbols of intense and intimate experiences.

But summer poses a unique challenge. You might not want to sport those marks with all the skin-baring outfits and trips to the beach. How do you ask your dom to avoid leaving marks during this season? We’ll give you some pointers on how to make that request.

If you do end up with marks, we’ve got the best techniques to conceal them. We’ll also dive into whether BDSM marks are viewed differently on men versus women and what that means for your summer wardrobe choices. And, of course, we'll cover what to do when those marks make an unexpected appearance, despite your best efforts to keep them hidden.

Tune in for all the tips and insights you need to navigate BDSM marks in the sunny season.

IN THIS EPISODE

  • What are BDSM marks?
  • Why subs love getting marks from BDSM play - despite the pain.
  • Why doms love marking their subs during BDSM play.
  • A few reasons you may not want to get any BDSM marks in the summer - and how to make the request to your dom.
  • Best techniques to conceal BDSM marks in the summer.
  • Are BDSM marks perceived differently on men and women?
  • What to do when your BDSM marks accidentally show up, despite all your best efforts to conceal them.

3 VALUE BOMBS

  • BDSM marks can be cherished as pleasant reminders of intense, beautiful moments shared with your dom or sub. They symbolize the trust, connection, and mutual enjoyment experienced during your play sessions, making them much more than just physical marks on the skin.
  • If you're planning a beach holiday, don't hesitate to ask your Dom to go easy on you, ensuring you can enjoy your trip without visible bruises. Alternatively, schedule your play sessions with enough time for marks to heal before you hit the beach or board your flight.
  • Long-lasting foundations are your best friend for covering severe bruising, even when you're in the water. Just make sure to apply them correctly for maximum coverage and durability, ensuring your marks stay hidden while you enjoy your summer activities.

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About the Podcast

Love Beyond Limits
Welcome to Love Beyond Limits. We’re your hosts, Desire, a polyamorous submissive, and Purity, a monogamous dominant sadist. Our perspectives may differ, but our goal is the same: we’re all about empowering you to navigate the crazy world of modern dating, so you can get the love you deserve and a sex life that sizzles - with a hint of kink thrown in. Join two friends as they talk about dating dilemmas, steamy sexcapades, and unconventional relationships. Whether you’re curious about poly, dipping your toes in the kinky scene, or just want some real talk on love, sex, and the whole shebang, you’re in the right place. Together, let's break boundaries and redefine what true love really is.