Coming Out As Poly? Here Are Some Things To Consider
Is it time to open up about being poly or exploring kink? Let's dive into Desire's story. After spending six years in a monogamous relationship, she decided it was time to embrace and open up about being poly. If you're sitting on a similar fence, this episode's for you. We're unpacking those moments that whisper, "Hey, it's time," and how to lean into those conversations with your nearest and dearest.
Navigating these waters can be tricky, right? How do you even begin that chat, and what if the response isn't what you hoped for? We've got you covered with some friendly advice on getting the ball rolling in a positive way and handling the mix of reactions that might come your way. Plus, we're talking about setting up those all-important boundaries so that moving forward, everyone's clear on what this means for you. It's all about building a foundation of respect and understanding as you step into your truth.
IN THIS EPISODE
- Desire shares her decision to open up her 6 years monogamous relationship.
- When you realise you're poly or kinky, should you tell your friends and family straight away?
- The subtle sign that tells you it's time to be open about being poly or having a kink
- Why Desire decided to come out as poly to her friends and family very early on in her journey
- The hidden benefits of coming out as poly you may not be aware of (that make coming out so worth it!)
- Practical tips on how to come out to your friends and family
- How to start the coming out conversation on the right foot
- How to deal with people's judgements and opinions, especially when they don't agree with your lifestyle choices
- How to set boundaries and expectations for the future, so the people in your life know how to treat you going forward
3 VALUE BOMBS
- Give the people you love credit. While your disclosure might catch them off guard, they're likely to appreciate your trust in sharing this part of yourself and will mainly wish for your happiness.
- Be open to all kinds of questions (people are curious!), but don't feel pressured into changing your mind. You're asking for support, not permission.
- Don't be afraid to set boundaries. Most people don't know how to deal with this revelation, so state what you expect and ask for the support you need to take your relationships to the next level.
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