How To Vet Potential Poly Partners And Find Out If They're The Right Match For You
Picture this: you're engrossed in a conversation with someone you're considering as a potential polyamorous partner. The chemistry is palpable, and everything seems to be falling into place until you realize you're not looking for the same things in a relationship.
It's a frustrating scenario, but fear not – in this episode, we're tackling this common dating dilemma head-on. We'll delve into the intricacies of vetting potential poly partners, helping you figure out whether your relationship goals align with theirs.
From discussing relationship dynamics and communication styles to addressing concerns about emotional availability and commitment, we'll cover all the essential topics you need to consider when navigating the poly dating scene.
Whether you're new to polyamory or a seasoned veteran, this episode will provide valuable insights and strategies for finding the right match in the polyamorous community.
IN THIS EPISODE
- The right questions to ask to find out if you want the same things from a polyamorous relationship.
- The #1 red flag message that lets you know the person you're talking to is not interested in a relationship.
- Warning signs a potential partner is trying to groom you into something you don't want.
- How to tell straight away when a potential partner is emotionally unavailable for a relationship.
- Is a recent breakup a sign a person isn't ready for a new relationship?
- The 5 types of people you should be wary of starting a new relationship with.
- Should you get involved with people who have "NSA" or "No drama" on their dating profiles?
3 VALUE BOMBS
- Don't hold back from asking questions about their journey with polyamory and their other partners. If someone is authentically polyamorous and open-minded, they'll likely be happy to share their personal stories and reflections with you.
- If you're chatting with someone who's new to polyamory, ask them what got them interested and how much they know about it. Whether they've been flipping through "The Ethical Slut" or chatting with poly friends, you want folks who really get it and aren't buying into the usual stereotypes.
- Building a successful polyamorous relationship requires more than just shared interests and lifestyle preferences; it requires a strong emotional bond where both partners feel understood, respected, and cared for.
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