Episode 30

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Published on:

6th Sep 2024

Should You Ever Veto Your Partner’s Choices? Here’s What to Do Instead

Ever heard of veto power? It’s that move where you say “nope, not happening” to something your partner wants to do or someone they want to see. But should you actually be using it? We’ll break down why vetoing might not be the best idea for your relationship and give you better options to handle those uncomfortable situations. From finding ways to accept your partner’s choices to talking things out without starting a fight, we’ve got practical tips to help you avoid a power struggle. Plus, we’ll dive into the healthy alternatives when compromise feels impossible.

IN THIS EPISODE

  • What is veto power? 
  • Why do partners exercise the power of veto?
  • Should you ever veto your partner's choices/desires? Here's why it's not always the best idea.
  • 3 options to use instead of exercising veto power.
  • What does accepting your partner's choice really mean.
  • How to tell your partner you don't want them to see someone or do something you're not comfortable with - without causing a fight.
  • How to brainstorm alternative solutions to vetos and reach an outcome both partners are happy with.
  • The healthy and ethical alternative to veto if you can't find a solution both partners are happy with.

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About the Podcast

Love Beyond Limits
Welcome to Love Beyond Limits. We’re your hosts, Desire, a polyamorous submissive, and Purity, a monogamous dominant sadist. Our perspectives may differ, but our goal is the same: we’re all about empowering you to navigate the crazy world of modern dating, so you can get the love you deserve and a sex life that sizzles - with a hint of kink thrown in. Join two friends as they talk about dating dilemmas, steamy sexcapades, and unconventional relationships. Whether you’re curious about poly, dipping your toes in the kinky scene, or just want some real talk on love, sex, and the whole shebang, you’re in the right place. Together, let's break boundaries and redefine what true love really is.